The subjective perceptions can never be reconciled
We all live within the confines of our own body, where we have a single brain, one heart, two eyes.
The thoughts and emotions we have are our own, and they flourish from within.
We have the way we see the world, other people, our surroundings, and how we interpret the happenings around us. Still, it is only one soul's ideas and meanings, versus other trillions.
One soul encapsulating so much, so many unique visions and ideas, but still different from everybody else.
One the same note, one can never be perfect, because the subjective personal preference of personality traits one person holds, can never be met in everyone. And if the way you behave corresponds nicely to how one person sees perfection, it will clash and be destroyed by another.
If the traits and personality we inhabit were to change for the benefit of one person, it would be to the detriment of another who no longer likes the different persona.
Our core being will be lovd by some, and disliked by others for no particular reason other than the fact that it triggers them negatively in some fashion. What rouses the personal buttons and angers us, excites us, elevates us, is always dependent on subjective responses and how we are molded in life and who we are when born.
Whose subjective perceptions are we then to adhere to, first and foremost to ourself and those that love us. It is important to have good self confidence, because we will inevitably run into people whose energy and vibe we dont mix well with, and if our confidence were to crack for every such encounter, our self image would be on smitherins by the age of 1.
When we refuse to see that we all view life through our very personal lense of perception, we become blinded to the truth of another, and stubbornly refuse to accept their experinces and accumulated information recorded as life passes by. Not one person is alike, and therefore everyone sees and percieves things differently. While you live your life, let others live theirs, without constanr judgement and obsessive needs to correct them. There does not always have to be interference and adjustments to be made just because your ideals infringes on theirs. The right to not get involved in other people business is often forgotten.
Who are anyone to say that one experience is worth more than another, one way of living usurps another, as we do not know how it is to walk in anothers shoe. Their subjective likes may give them extreme exaltion, while none to you. The love they feel, personal, intimate, and only theirs. While you record your very own story.